September 28, 2013
-- My favorite male soccer player, my son, Scott Partenheimer, married Stevie
Neale yesterday on an island in a lake at Camp
Ockanickon in Medford, NJ. They had been engaged since last August.
We have
this thing in our family about bad weather at weddings, including a blizzard,
heavy rain and a howling Nor’easter (for Debbie and me on March 13, 2010), so
it was a joy to see picture perfect weather in an idyllic setting, As he had been for Kirsten in 2008 and for
Debbie and me, brother Gary, an ordained Episcopal minister, was the officiant.
Scott is
known for backflips, but rather than backflipping to start the ceremony, he
just paddled over to the island in a canoe, and after he and Stevie were
pronounced husband and wife, they left by canoe.
As I said
at the reception, I was honored to join the Chesla family in Minnesota when Kirsten and Chris married in
2008, and to be accepted by the family of Debbie’s son-in-law, Adam Werner in
2010. Now I am equally honored to join
with the Neale family of Florida. And reiterating the toast to the happy
couple, Scott was best man when Debbie and I were married, so to the best son a
man could ever hope for and his new wife: Hoch
sollen sie leben! Dreimal hoch!